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些人觉得,享受人生总附带一定的奢侈,无形中在享受的当儿,难免一份罪恶感。我想,这得看你如何定义“享受”二字。享受与富裕、奢华没有必然关系。正如品味,再拮据的人也可以活得很有品味。之所以享受,是因为内心满足。满足不是物质金钱可堆砌的。唯有清楚意识自己要怎么活,才可能达到满足状态,才可能享受人生。多少人活着是此生非我有,而最大的可悲,是连此生非我有也毫无意识。忙忙碌碌活了一辈子,才来发现都在活着他人的方式,他人的定义。要享受人生,其实并不难,就看够不够勇气。够勇气抛开世俗的安逸,摒弃世俗对成败的定义,活出自己的方向。

Have you enjoyed life before, or should I reframe my question: are you enjoying life right now or at all? Enjoy is a word that is rather vague and ambiguous. How would you define enjoyment? Having a good life, maybe? Sounds true enough, but that did not exactly answer the question. Moreover, what is good? What actually constitutes to a life that can be considered good? Material satisfaction does help in a way but that’s definitely not the key to a good life; we all know that, do we not? I read something on today’s paper, the writer posted a question: are you merely existing or are you living? When your life is nothing but a mere existent, you are not living your life. You can only enjoy every moment of your existing life when you consciously live it. Knowing yourself and doing what you should and want to do is what I considered conscious living. Many of us are drowned in the tidal waves of societal pressure; the easiest way to survive would be to drift along. When we drift, we are not in control of our direction. What could be worst than that? To enjoy life is not that difficult, you just need to have the courage; the courage to face yourself, the know yourself and at a certain juncture in life, detach yourself from the society, forget about the societal notion of success or failure but strive in your own way the success that is meant for this life of yours.

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